Instead of Just Saying “Good Job,” Tell Your Child What They Did Well

“Good job!” is encouraging, but specific praise gives your child more information. Instead of only praising the outcome, name the behavior or effort you noticed: “You waited patiently.” “You asked for help.” “You kept trying.” “You used kind words.” Specific feedback helps connect your words to the skill your child just practiced. Keep it genuine, brief, and appropriate for your child’s preferences—some children enjoy enthusiastic praise, while others may prefer quieter acknowledgment. Notice the small steps, not only perfect results.