Why Do My Autistic Child and I Keep Misunderstanding Each Other?

Communication differences can work both ways. A parent may think a child is ignoring, overreacting, or refusing, while the child may be processing slowly, needing more information, feeling overwhelmed, or showing attention differently. Instead of assuming intent, pause and ask what the child may be experiencing. Use clear language, give time to respond, check understanding, and be willing to adjust your own communication too. Better connection often comes from both people meeting in the middle.